For a long time I held on to the familiar ways of doing things. Even as low vision began to change my eyesight, I was determined to preserve the identity I’d always known. I was quiet about my experiences, thinking that a stronger pair of glasses would fix everything – even as my world grew increasingly blurry. I kept the majority of my frustration and fear to myself, feeling like nobody truly understood what I was experiencing. Then, during a gentle conversation with a counsellor, something stirred inside me.
“I meet many people with private struggles like yours, and I’ve found that those who have the best outcomes are the ones who make a conscious decision to make some changes”. Her words, gentle yet profound, opened my eyes to the possibility that I wasn’t facing this challenge alone. “Sometimes the first step toward a brighter tomorrow is simply trying to do something differently today,” she said. Her words made me realise that fear of change was keeping me from discovering new opportunities to live fully, even though my eyesight was changing.
I’ve since embraced a new chapter – one where learning and connection have become my guiding lights. I took a chance on learning some digital accessibility skills, and now I even impress my grandkids with how quick I am on my phone. It’s not about the gadgets at all – it’s about feeling alive, connected, and capable. A counselling group reminds me that I’m not alone on this journey. A few of us have a group message chat now and its funny, relatable and so supportive.
In a world where many of us quietly adapt to life’s differences without others noticing; that one conversation opened my eyes to the possibility of change. It isn’t always easy but with gentle support for my mental wellbeing and a willingness to explore, I’ve rediscovered a joy for life that I once thought was lost. I’m finally adjusting to life with low vision. As it turns out, my identity is me, and that will always be.
Jana, SeeWay client. (Named changed for privacy).
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